the best part of being yourself is when there's no one complaining about your action, by writting this blog , i found that it really made myself found what i need in life .

by learning interpersonal skills, i truly understand what good communication skill can do. it helps in self confidence after doing all the presentation, all the right way when communicate with other. well, obviously, i am so nervous when presenting something, but , i still can speak out what i want to deliver.
thanks for all my audience because keep support me even though sometimes my words didn't releven to what i want to say. hehehe....

thanks .
love.

THE MAGIC INGREDIENT; GRATITUDE

hello again, well.... actually i don't really know what to share. but do take you chance to read my post for this time. enjoy !!!!  

" a thankful heart hath a continual feast"- W.J CAMERON (1879-1953)                                                                                      [JOURNALIST AND BUSINESSMAN]

giving thanks for food before you eat is a tradition that has been followed for thousands of years, dating back to the ancient Egyptians. with the past pace of life in the twenty-first century, taking the time to give thanks for a meal has more often than not been left behind. but using the simple act of eating and drinking as an opportunity to be grateful will increase the magic in your life exponentially !

           if you think about a time when you were really hungry, you will remember that you could not think or function normally, your body felt weak, you might have started to tremble, your mind became confused, and your feelings plummeted. all of this can happen after not eating for just a few hours ! you need food to live,to think, and to feel good, and so there is a great deal to be grateful for about food. 

" it is only with gratitude that life become rich." -DIETRICH BONHOEFFER                                                                                 (1906-1945) [LUTHERAN PASTOR]

gratitude is riches and complaint is poverty; it's the golden rule of your whole life, whether it's your health, job, relationship, or money. the more grateful you can be for the money you have, even if you dont have very much, the more riches you will receive, and the more you complaint about money, the poorer you will become.

            today's magical practice turns one of the biggest reasons people complaint about money into an act of gratitude, and so it has double the power to change the circumstances of your money; you'll be replacing a complaint, which make you poorer, with gratitude , which magically brings you riches.   

gratitude is like a magnetic golden thread attached to your money, so when you pay money out, the money always returned to you,sometimes equally, sometimes tenfold, sometimes a hundredfold. the abundance you receive back depends not on how much money you give, but on how much gratitude you give. 

"it is quite possible to leave your home for a walk early in the morning air and returned a different person-beguiled, enchanted." - MARY ELLEN CHASE                                                                           (1887-1973)[EDUCATOR AND WRITER]

as Newton said, " when i look at the solar system,  i see the Earth at the right distance from the sun to receive the proper amount of heat and light. this did not happen by chance." it is not an accident that the trees give off oxygen so that our atmosphere is continuously replenished. it seems that there are actually perfectly designed, perfectly balanced for us. 

           when the realization hits you that all these things might not be an accident, and that the balance of every microscopic elements surrounding earth and on earth is perfectly harmony to support us, you will feel an overwhelming sense of gratitude for life, because all of it has been done to sustain you!

breathe the way you naturally breathe, because this magical practice is not about your breathing, but about your gratitude for the air you breathe. if taking a bigger breath helps you to feel more gratitude,then do that. if it helps to make a sound or mentally say the magic word, thank you, as you breathe the air out, then do that too. 

    in ancient teachings it is said that when a person reaches the point of being deeply grateful for the air that they breathe, their gratitude will reaches the new level of power, and they will become the true alchemist who can effortlessly turn their every part of life into gold!

okay, lets practice the gratitude, and make our life turns better with that magic word. 

that's all for now..... thank you, 

* credits to : the secret book - the magic by RHONDA BYRNE

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owh, well. from that i could apply to my life and my visions which can help be to be so grateful in any situation. apart from that i will put high effort on my vision to achieve it. i have found out that by applying gratitude to my life onward, i could be what i wanted!

thanks, 

reasons and idol

assalamualaikum.

hyep !

dear readers,

this time i gonna share about what made me want to make my dreams come true. there are many reasons why i doing my best in everything i have done, even though i couldn't make it, i still have the reasons to keep trying.

the first reason is me, myself who realize that i have a big responsibility as a caliph in this world.
i may not be the one who fight using sword and guns, but i am trying my best to fight in my own way. i believe that if we really understand the reasons of living, we will always try to make things right, ready to make any decision, and have faith in any situation. i admit that i also cannot easily accept the fate that are written for me. but i truly believe that Allah knows the best.

mak and abah . where a reason actually is. this two person who always support my decision, and always here when i am needing and maybe that is why i am really close with them. well, i couldn't lie that their loved is unlimited. so do i. mak. always pushes me to made a decision that i'll not regret. if i made some decision that i feel uneasy with it, then mak will asked why i've made that decision. for her, before we go on with the decision, make sure that we are really sincere so that we can made ourselves satisfy by looking at others smile which means satisfactory. deep in my heart, i could see their hope on me through the deep eyes. i am sure that every sons and daughters are realize about this thing but we do not really perform ourselves right. we always want to follow our own heart. so every time i want to do something, i ' ll reflect it to my "nawaitu" and my parents.

not to forget, my big family. my friends, my teachers, my mentors, my seniors and juniors in MRSM and people around me. the supports is the real reasons to keep strong and keep trying. i love everyone.



“Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.”
― William Shakespeare, All's Well That Ends Well

on the other hands, this is my idol and here are some of his biography.   :)

• Sheikh Muszaphar Shukor Al Masrie bin Sheikh Mustapha

• (born 27 July 1972)

• Malaysian orthopaedic surgeon

• first Malaysian astronaut. He was launched to the International Space Station aboard Soyuz TMA-11 with the Expedition 16 crew on 10 October 2007.

• Sheikh Muszaphar flew under an agreement with Russia through the Angkasawan program, and returned to Earth on 21 October 2007, aboard Soyuz TMA-10 with the Expedition 15 crew members, Fyodor Yurchikhin and Oleg Kotov.

• Sheikh Muszaphar was born in Kuala Lumpur

• He is of Arab and Malay descent.

• He attended high school at Maktab Rendah Sains MARA in Muar.

• He then earned a Bachelor of Medicine and Surgery degree from Kasturba Medical College, Manipal, India.

• Sheikh Muszaphar is an orthopaedic surgeon at the Universiti Kebangsaan Malaysia.

• In 1998, Sheikh Muszaphar worked at Hospital Seremban, followed by a move to Kuala Lumpur General Hospital in 1999, and was on staff at Hospital Selayang from 2000 through 2001.

• Sheikh Muszaphar is also a part-time model.

the reason why i choose him an idol is because he has good character and personality ; which helps him a lot in achieving his dreams. even though he is not an engineer, i admires his great achievement in medical and the way he managed to be the first Malaysian astronaut in 2007. i think that the best way of being a human- be so grateful on everything we have, the original! 

visions

kausarharis,story: no regret, please: "be what you really are" to be a chemical engineer is unexpected ambition of myself but i think this is better than nothing :) ..."be what you really are"VISION. the thing that everyone should have to move forward dreams and great future. i know everybody have different thought, what we are going to be, what are we really love to have and achieve. this questions remark that everyone know their plan towards future. yeah! me too. 

well, for a start i think that its better to let known that i have decided to be a professional chemical engineer as i begin to love this course. the best part of studying this course is that i can develop myself to adapt the engineer lifestyle. so far, i am grateful that i was chosen to be one of the engineers. truly its satisfied me. i realize that i can get through this efficiently without hesitation. and of course i can make people around me proud especially my beloved parents. they really support my decision even though they know that this course is not easy.i expected myself to achieve degree, master and PhD by age 25. i got this inspiration from a girl who had finished her PhD by age 24.

"According to scientists, the bumblebee's body is too heavy and its wing span too small. Aerodynamically, the bumblebee cannot fly. But the bumblebee doesn't know that and it keeps flying."

When you don't know your limitations, you go out and surprise yourself. In hindsight, you wonder if you had any limitations. The only limitations a person has are those that are self-imposed. Don't let education put limitations on you. this means that we can achieve what we dream as if we have high spirit and good effort in our own way. after finishing my PhD, i want to proceed working for a permanent position in any company to apply what have i learnt.

by this, i can add up my saving and experience new things. when i am stable with my financial state, i want to buy a car so that i can go anywhere easily. then i am planning to buy my first house using my saving. its okay if its not that big, because after few years more working, i'll then renovate my house the way that i want. i am planning to see someone by that age, maybe i am ready to be in a relationship as for now i stop to get to know anyone further. i do accept friends but i don't prefer not to have relation more than friendship does. this is because i am now focusing on managing myself to achieve good results and be a good university student. i believe that i am on the right path towards my mission and vision. have faith!! fighting!!

introduction

assalamualaikum, hello,

my name is NUR HIDAYATUL KAUSAR BINTI HARIS. I am from PERLIS.
I am a girl with 163 cm height and have ideal BMI . hehe.. i  was born on 17th of JUNE 1996 in my hometown.

 i am the sixth child out of seven and third out of four daughter. i have such a great happy family to live with. among all, i am very close to my mom which explains that i cannot hold on any secret of mine from my mom. haha. well, she knows everything. 

after learning about interpersonal skill, i think i have a little part of me of a sanguine-type person. this is because sometimes i can get along with people that i just get knowing them. apart of that i am also a happy-go-lucky person which i can adapt with people around me easily especially with them who make me comfort. 

- my mom always says to me to find myself good in front of people, which means to have good conversation and great deal with friends and others.-

in this case i could find myself comfortable with my teammates and lab group because we could understand each other and always do discussion without any problem. 

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